Q: Joint legal custody but I do not have primary physical. Ex has moved (within limits of decree) but this changed the edu situation without any consultation. Refuses to be accommodating with any visitation modifications bc of the new distance. Ex is uncooperative with info about MD visits and refuses to engage about provider & covid vax. In fact all major decisions have been made without consult. Decree is 10 yrs old, but my patience have waned.
A: First, you should keep a paper-trail, documenting all alleged violations. If they aren’t rectified, then you’ll need to make a decision as to whether you merely want to file a violation case (perhaps shifting spheres of influence on decisions and/or imposing monetary penalties for the violations), or moving for primary custody. Schedule a consult with a Westchester Child Custody attorney for a full assessment.