Q: My ex continues to schedule activities during my visitation. Usually a day before my scheduled visitation, my ex will text or email me and include our son 13 yr old son in the conversation (by including his phone number or personal email) therefore making it uncomfortable if I say no to making the switch. I don’t want to upset my son since my ex clearly promised this activity to him so often times,I just agree. My ex has changed my visitation so regularly now that it I am not able to make plans for my son and I. Can I file that my ex is not following the order?
A: David’s Answer: First, I’d suggest to send your ex a letter detailing your alleged violations & suggest that henceforth she avoid scheduling activities during your time & stop putting the child in the middle. If that doesn’t solve things, then file a modification/violation petition. Schedule a consult with a Westchester Family Law attorney for a full assessment.